The desire to seek personal pleasure must be controlled; it is wrong to think that having a girlfriend with someone allows you to get rid of your need for self-pleasure, particularly sex and play, in order to have other pleasures. To be young and to be an adult is to be able to enter into a relationship with others, not to use them as a means of getting pleasure. Catechesis on young people giving birth early, before marriage, with P. Marc Ramiandrasoa.