Kindness is the basis of choice: believing in God. A spouse may depend on the following: work, family background, daily life, personality and emotions. A spouse can depend on the following elements: work, family background, daily life, personality and emotions. We can ask ourselves the question: does the person we choose to marry have to be perfect; no doubt it is said that no one is perfect, but natural kindness is an advantage for everyone. Catechesis for young people preparing for marriage, with Fr Thierry Germain Randriamiarantsoa.